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Psychological techniques for good parenting style!

A shout out to all the parents for changing, implementing positive parenting methods. 


"You guys are the future that once every child has cried for. Perfection is not required, trying to understand, improving, having consistency, appreciating everyday efforts, noticing the changes these are the required aspects which can lead to better end results."

Earlier children used to be beaten up so easily, very frequently also, have been disrespected in front of others and many such things were done because people didn't give importance that even respect matters to children good behavior and treatment is important too.

I know few people who got good parenting also few people who might have had a toxic relationship with parents or no relationship bond at all and the children who faced it and now being parents have really done a good job by changing or applying certain patterns with making sure that the children should be treated friendly by making sure they also be type of children who can listen to their parents as well.

Psychological techniques for good parenting style:

Embrace Praise: This is referred to giving the attention to the desired or undesired behavior like the more you give attention to the desired behavior the children focus more on desired behavior and the attention of children is shifted from undesired behavior. Reinforcing and Punishment can also be considered but in a positive way like punishing child. Reinforcing the praise with a smile or a friendly touch. Punishment a better way to ask children to clean their room do their homework.

Look the other way: Ignoring the minor misbehaviors and focusing of the nice behaviors helps to negative behaviors to leave the table without creating toxic environment once the children understand the reactions and responses so just be a little careful with it.

Learn about child development: Parents who know what a child is capable of understanding, feeling and doing at different ages and stages of development can be more realistic about what behaviors to expect, leading to less frustration and aggression.

Prevent misbehavior: Plan ahead to prevent arising situations, teach children to cope as per situation & keep children engage.

Take care of yourself first: Most of the parents don't consider its importance and it's extremely important because exhaustion, stressing, aggression and other such behaviors arises and eventually creates a bad environment and it's not going to help you or relationship with anyone around you.  

It's not only you who get affected by children's behavior it works in same way for children's too. Like if you are stressed out your children will be worried too.

Make time: Having one-on-one conversation, Spending time playing with an indoor or outdoor activities and creating special moments. Special time for a child is the best thing for a child.

These psychological techniques will help you to keep it organized and easy going.

Sadiya Nishath


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